It seems like every day we’ve been listening to news that some people are getting married while the others are getting divorced. What the heck?
Ada yang jatuh cinta pandang pertama, ada yang baru knal few weeks or months, ade yg bercinta bertahun-tahun lamanya.
Bila dah kahwin, ade yang bertahan for only a year, few months, or not even a month!
Ok, life must go on. When first marriage fails, then come the second. Some succeed, the others kecundang lagi.
This is real life. At one time, we might learn all these are happening to those celebrities, either they are planned to do such thing for publicity purpose or it’s just that they don’t lead a happy life because of conspiracies, scandals, glamour and stuffs like that.
But look around you. Some of you even facing it in your life, maybe you, maybe your family members, maybe your friends, maybe your orang kampong, maybe rumours that you hear, or it can even happen to me.. (naudzubillah)
What’s happening to us? What’s the purpose of falling in love and then.. “That’s it. I’m over it.” I’m sick of knowing all these kahwin-cerai, break-ups, love-hate stuffs. Did God create us to just disappoint ourselves?
Yes, the answer is no.
“Hai manusia, sesungguhnya Kami menciptakan kamu dari seorang laki-laki dan seorang perempuan dan menjadikan kamu berbangsa-bangsa dan bersuku-suku supaya kamu saling kenal mengenal. Sesungguhnya orang yang paling mulia di antara kamu di sisi Allah ialah orang yang paling bertakwa di antara kamu. Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Mengetahui lagi Maha Mengenal.”
God wants us to know each other, to love each other but the most honourable of all adalah orang yang menjadikan dirinya paling bertaqwa from doing what is advisable in these Quran verses.
So get to know more people, from various backgrounds, and benefit from it. Along this way anything will happen, including terminating the relationship that was built. Well it doesn’t sound too bad eh. Because what God counts is the ketaqwaan from it, not the result.
Yeah, it’s easy to talk here since I’ve never been into marriage myself. But I don’t want to repeat mistakes or silliness from history, people’s experiences. And I don’t want other people to do it as well.
“Perceraian akan menjadi kejadian sehari-hari”
(Allamah Safarini, Ahwal Yaum al-Qiyamah of ‘Allamah Safarini)
Like it or not, it is the sign of the Doom’s day. The world is going to end soon. Why not?
Manusia dah hilang nilai2 moral.
Manusia sakit tapi tak dirawat dengan cara yang betul.
Manusia tahu yang benar tapi pilih yang salah jugak.
Manusia tak suka certain kejahatan tapi buat kejahatan yang lain.
Tak heran la kalau yang bersatu pon boleh bercerai.
We are rotten.
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